I worked on cleaning out the baby’s room today. Yes, my due date is just over 3 weeks away, and yes, I am just now getting the room ready. Can you tell this is my third? When I was pregnant the first time, we painted the walls of the nursery, cleaned the carpets, washed baby clothes and put them away…all done about 2 months before the due date. We even had family that came and helped so that I didn’t have to paint or push the steam cleaner.
With a 4-year-old and a 2-year-old, things are a little different this time! Today I am happy that I actually have all the clutter out of the crib and off the changing table. I washed the crib sheets, and cleared out the rest of the clutter in the room. Tomorrow I hope to get the bed made up, hang the matching curtains, and clean the floor. I will get it all done; just not very early. Skylar is sleeping in the room with Jacob now in the bunk beds, but her clothes and toys are still in what will be the baby’s room. We just have to put things where they will fit!
Things are definitely different after that first baby; not bad, just different. Once there is more than one child, the kids automatically have someone to play with. They also have to work on sharing at an earlier age! They have to learn to take turns, and to wait for help and attention sometimes. They have to learn to resolve conflicts and treat each other nicely. Sometimes the fussing and arguing is hard to deal with, but there is more hugging, laughing, and playing than there is fighting.
So, even if the baby’s room is not perfect or fancy, and he has to share his space instead of having it all to himself, he will have a comfortable, warm place to sleep (although I can’t guarantee quiet). He will have everything he needs, and more. Most importantly, he will have an abundance of love and attention…from all four of us.