We had a big transition here today. It may not seem big to you, but it was a big deal to a 5-year-old and a 3-year-old. Today was preschool storytime at the library. I took Skylar and JonDavid, but not Jacob. He has had a hard time accepting that he would not be going to storytime anymore. We had already talked to him about it, and had a plan for what he was going to do while I took Skylar. But he still cried a little this morning when it came time to go. And, Skylar cried because she wanted Jacob to go. She has never gone to storytime without him, and she is used to relying on him and following his lead in many ways. I assured her that she would be fine, that Mom and JonDavid would be there, and that it was time for her to be a good big sister and show JonDavid how to act at storytime. We reminded Jacob that he was in kindergarten now, not preschool anymore, and that he was going to have a special science class with Daddy during that time. We have had the book for the science lessons for a while now, and I could tell he was torn because he has been eagerly anticipating the start of those lessons. I knew that both of them would be fine if we could just get them through this first transition day.
Well, Skylar did very well at the library on her own. When we got home, I was not even out of the car before Jacob was on the porch talking about what he had done while I was gone. He was so excited to show me what he had learned. I was really happy to see that excitement and know that we were doing the right thing. My husband is doing a study of the human body with Jacob, and today they learned about the brain and spinal cord. They traced Jacob’s body onto paper and hung it up on his door. As they study different parts of the body, they will put pictures of those parts onto the poster. They are also making a book about the body. Jacob proudly showed me the picture of the brain and spinal cord that is on his poster, and explained what he had learned. He also read the page they wrote in the book about the cerebrum, cerebellum, and spinal cord, and he studied it on his own several times throughout the rest of the day. All is well!
Change is hard for anybody, but it is especially difficult for children who find security in routines. Change is part of life, though, and we must help our children learn how to handle it. Kids can be flexible, but sometimes the flexing hurts a little! Once we help them go through with it, they will be OK. In fact, in this situation, they will be better off after going through it. Jacob had fun at storytime, but he has definitely outgrown it. He will get much more out of the good science lessons that his Dad does with him, and it will be good for the two of them to have some time together, as well. It is good for Skylar to break away from Jacob a bit and do something on her own. With some encouragement and reassurance, they can handle the change and enjoy what is on the other side.

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